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Steps for successful holiday season coparenting

On Behalf of | Nov 15, 2023 | Child Custody & Parenting Time

The holiday season brings joy and festivities, but it can also challenge parents sharing child custody. Successful coparenting during this time requires thoughtful planning and effective communication.

Proactive steps help ensure a positive experience for your children and reduce the stress of the season.

Create a detailed schedule

Planning is key to successful holiday coparenting. Collaborate to create a detailed schedule that outlines when the children will spend time with each parent. This proactive approach minimizes confusion and sets clear expectations.

Remain open to compromise

Staying flexible makes it easier to coparent effectively this time of year. Unexpected events or changes may arise. Find solutions that work for both parents to prioritize your child’s well-being.

Communicate clearly and respectively

Calmly and clearly discuss plans, expectations and changes in schedule well in advance. Use respectful and neutral language to avoid misunderstandings with your coparent.

Focus on your child’s needs

Consider your child’s preferences such as favorite traditions when planning activities and celebrations. This step fosters a sense of security and happiness during this special time of the year.

Share responsibilities and costs

Collaboration extends beyond scheduling. The average American spends nearly $900 during the holiday season. Ensure fairness and reduce possible conflicts by working together to budget for gifts, organize events and contribute to special activities.

Establish new traditions

When parents have shared custody, they may each want to start new traditions in their new homes. Think about unique ways kids can enjoy the holiday with each parent. This creates a sense of belonging and happy memories in both households.

Consider seeking mediation to resolve issues amicably if you and your coparent cannot agree. A neutral third party can help you negotiate solutions that serve your child’s best interests.